i’m not going to say it (because i hate it when bloggers say “I’m Baaacckkk” and i never even realized they were gone)……but, i am returning to the blog world after a 2 week semi-break. it was a little bit nice to be much more unplugged and free from the constant thoughts of what i would be posting about and who’s doing what via twitter and facebook. but, i also MISSED you and can’t wait to catch up on all the new babies, big decisions, and everyday stories that you so willingly share with me.
while i was gone, i basically endured 2 very STRESSFUL weeks of house packing, moving, and new-house-searching. i jotted these notes down so i could look back someday and see God’s hand on it all, but honestly, right now—-i’m discouraged and tired of thinking about it all.
Our new house journey so far:
House #1--perfect price, bit small, perfect condition, perfect amount of land, great lot. (April 2012)
Needed to sell townhouse in order to buy.
Put townhouse up for sale.
Next day, house #1 went under contract—booo, sold for exact price we wanted it for.
Sell townhouse.
House #2–higher price, perfect location, a few repairs needed, great space (HUGE)
Call to schedule a showing—went under contract the night before.
House #3–house #2′s neighbor so great location, great size, more repairs needed and less updated, not as well maintained
Move in with the in-laws.
Put in an offer on house #3
Wait for a response for 3 days…….
In the meantime, the realtor from House #2 calls and says they want to do a backup offer with us because it appears the current buyers aren’t going to follow through.
Rescind the offer on House #3.
Put in an offer on House #2.
Wait…..wait…..wait…….
Are promised to have a ratified contract on Wed. morning—Wed. morning comes, Wed. evening comes…..nothing….they are still negotiating with the first buyers.
Wait….wait…..
Lose both houses.
Feel defeated and discouraged.
Drive around for 5 hours scouring every last house location within in our budget and distance requirements (to no real avail).
Thankful for our chance to live with jon’s parents while we wait on the Lord’s timing.
The search continues….
thanks for all your prayers for this type-A-wants-to-be-in-control-and-can’t-be girl.
and now, please tell me any and all big news you have that i missed in the last 2 weeks. i want to KNOW and be back in the loop!
hugs and happy monday, friends.
I’m sorry things have been so stressful! I’m praying that those houses fell through because the perfect one for your family is still out there!
oh Andi. I’m so sorry! You are right though – you will look back and completely see God’s hand in all of those homes falling through – although right now it’s NO FUN at all! I’ll be praying for you all, that God places the right home in your hands. Kiss those babies & enjoy not being home owners for the time being
xoxo
ps. no exciting news over here except that tomorrow marks week 32 in the pregnancy! whoop whoop!
Sorry about the house ordeal. We just went through looking for a house. We got approved for a loan, but not in writing. The bank guy that said we could buy, went on holiday. We found a house, put in bid, they took the bid. Bank denied the loan. Very frustrating. So I feel for you.
No exciting news, but new baby should be here in the next 3 weeks!
Andi, I’m so sorry. What a nightmare. We have been through a similar whirlwind. I hate the whole moving twice scenario. I am, like you, however, thankful for a place to land and be content while we wait for that “perfect” situation. We are thankful to be out of debt, crossing our fingers that we don’t get back in and liking our new house and location. I have learned a lot about downsizing, trusting God fully and being content! I think I’ve learned the most about contentment. Where does my contentment lie? God has really been working with me here. That situation will come for you —-I’ll pray for patience as you wait!
Oh girl I am praying for that perfect house to show itself SOON!!
I k now God’s timing is always best BUT I just wish i could see it ahead of time don’t you? Love ya girl!
I do believe everything happens for a reason! These houses were just not for you! Your house is still out there ;o)
Thanks for sharing your story, even though it hasn’t turned out just like you wanted it to….so far. I’ll say a prayer for you all that God would continue to open doors no man can open and close doors no man can close to guide you in the path and place He has for you. Can’t wait to see where that is! Trust him fully, for he cares for you!
Love you, Aunt Jen
Welcome back friend! I am sorry for your struggles finding “the” home for your family. But I know that the Lord will bless you with the PERFECT place for you and you will be laughing that you ever thought you wanted house #1-#3 in the first place. I know its hard to see right now, and I dont want to belittle it at all. I just have faith that the perfect place is in your future. Love ya!
Ugh. That about says it all. Nothing more to say, just wanted you to know that I feel for you!! Silver lining perhaps–At least you get to be without a mortgage right now…saving more for a down payment for “THE” house, right?!?
oh bless your heart! that sounds so stressful and i’m so sorry youre going through that :/
the Lord has something wonderful waiting for you.. just wait on Him. it’s hard but so very worth it!
sending you good house hunting thoughts and prayers!